Buy it for life: when buying sensible gets silly

From £35 designer potato peelers to 'heirloom' saucepans, social media is obsessed with luxury versions of everyday items. But as Black Friday approaches, has sensible shopping gone too far? We investigate a trend that's turning every purchase into a lifetime commitment...

Ever had something break at the worst possible moment? Whether it’s your work bag giving up during your commute or your kettle choosing Monday morning to call it quits, we’ve all been there. It’s no wonder, then, that the latest shopping movement taking social media by storm – Buy It For Life (or #BIFL) – has caught people’s attention.

Understanding the ‘Buy It For Life’ (BIFL) movement

The BIFL movement has become a genuine social phenomenon. On Reddit, the r/BuyItForLife community has grown to over 2.3 million members, while #BuyItForLife has amassed millions of views across TikTok and Instagram. Some focus on finding genuine quality that lasts, while others seem more interested in showing off luxury purchases – but the most valuable discussions are often about making everyday items last longer through proper care and maintenance.

Quality that makes sense

The best BIFL conversations aren’t about luxury items. They’re about finding well-made essentials that don’t need frequent replacing – whether bought new, found second-hand, or carefully maintained. You’ll find tips for extending the life of everything from work shoes to winter coats, and celebrations of decades-old appliances still going strong with a bit of TLC.

Why people are talking about it

With growing awareness of waste and environmental impact, plus a cost-of-living squeeze affecting everyone, there’s a lot of interest in making things last. While some social media influencers might focus on expensive ‘investment pieces’, many people are more interested in practical ways to choose, maintain and repair items they use every day.

What’s catching people’s eye?

As Black Friday approaches, here’s what’s trending in BIFL discussions:

Everyday essentials

  • Work bags that can handle a commute
  • Comfortable, repairable shoes
  • Clothes that survive frequent washing

Home basics

  • Reliable kitchen equipment
  • Durable bedding and towels
  • Winter warmers that last

The reality check: BIFL pros and cons

But let’s get real for a moment about some reality checks:

When “sensible” isn’t sensible

The BIFL trend can sometimes go too far. Sure, that artisanal copper pan might last forever, but it might feel a bit ridiculous as you come home from your long day at work to heat up some beans on toast. (And there’s nothing wrong with beans on toast and a regular pan, by the way – they’ve served us well for generations!)

The waiting game

While researching purchases carefully is smart, sometimes the BIFL mind-set leaves you perpetually waiting for the “perfect” buy. Life’s happening now – do you really want to spend three months reading umbrella reviews while your current one does its best impression of a broken windscreen wiper during your daily dash to the bus stop?

When life changes

You might invest in something “for life” only to have your needs change completely. That expensive laptop bag becomes overkill when you switch to working from home (where its main purpose becomes protecting your computer on its epic journey from the bedroom to the kitchen table). Or you splash out on kitchen gear, only to move somewhere with a tiny kitchen where one good pan is all you really need.

Smart shopping: making things last

The real wisdom isn’t about buying the most expensive version of everything. It’s about being clever with what you buy and making things last:

  • Learn basic repair skills (YouTube tutorials are your friend, but steer clear of trying to fix electricals yourself!)
  • Look after what you have
  • Check out charity shops and second-hand options
  • Use sales for things you genuinely need
  • Consider credit union loans for essential purchases that will save money long-term

The bottom line: finding what works for you

Sometimes the smartest choice is a quality item that’ll last years. Sometimes it’s a mid-range option that does the job perfectly well. And sometimes it’s making what you already have last longer with a bit of care and attention.

The key? Focus on what matters to you, not what social media says you should buy. After all, the best purchase is one that fits both your life and your budget – whether it’s for a season or for life.

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Ben West

As Head of Business Development, Ben is responsible for promoting our membership and services, improving customer experience, and developing our links with employers and community organisations

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