Taking control when money feels tight

When everything costs more, understanding where your money goes can help you regain control — without complicated budgets.

17 February, 2023

Money skills & financial tips

Money’s tough right now. Everything costs more — your weekly shop, filling up the car, heating your home. Some weeks it feels like there’s just not enough to go around, no matter how careful you try to be.

If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone. Millions of people are struggling with the same thing. And while we can’t fix rising prices, there is something that can help you feel a bit more in control of your money: knowing exactly where it goes.

It’s called budgeting, but don’t switch off — this isn’t about complicated spreadsheets or cutting out everything you enjoy. It’s simply about understanding your money so you can make the best choices with what you have.

Find out where your money actually goes

Most of us know our big bills — rent, council tax, the weekly shop. But it’s the smaller stuff that can catch us out. That meal deal when you’re out and about. The extra bits you chuck in the trolley. The subscriptions you’ve forgotten you’re paying for.

When you write down everything you spend for a few weeks, you might be surprised. Not because you’re wasting money, but because you didn’t realise where it was all going. Even finding £10 or £15 you didn’t know about can make a real difference when things are tight.

Stop small problems becoming big ones

The washing machine breaking down. Your phone packing up. The kids needing new shoes urgently. These things always seem to happen when you least expect them.

If you can manage to put aside even £5 or £10 a month into savings, it starts to add up. It might not cover everything, but it means those surprise costs don’t knock you completely sideways.

Make your money work for what matters to you

When you’re just trying to get through each week, it’s hard to think beyond paying the bills. But once you can see where your money goes, you might spot some choices you can make.

Maybe you’d rather buy own-brand instead of branded items for one or two products and put that towards something that matters more to you. Or maybe you realise you’re paying for a streaming service you never watch, and that money could go towards something more important.

It’s not about going without everything — it’s about making sure the money you spend goes on things that actually matter to you.

Sleep better at night

Money worries are incredibly stressful. That feeling of not knowing if you’ve got enough to last the month, or whether one unexpected bill will mess everything up, is exhausting.

Having a clear picture won’t make money problems disappear, but it does help you know where you stand. Instead of worrying about what might happen, you know what you can afford and what you can’t. That’s one less thing keeping you awake at night.

Getting started is easier than you think

You don’t need anything fancy. Just write down what you spend for a couple of weeks — even on the back of an envelope. Don’t try to change anything yet, just see what’s actually happening with your money.

If you want something more organised, you can try our budgeting tool. It’s from MoneyHelper, which is backed by the government. It’s completely private — neither they nor we can see what you put in — and it doesn’t cost anything.

The point isn’t to create some perfect budget you have to stick to no matter what. It’s just about understanding your money well enough to make the best choices you can with what you’ve got. When everything feels more expensive, that bit of knowledge can make a real difference.

Good to know

The contents of this article are intended for informational purposes only, and do not constitute financial advice. Always consult a qualified professional for independent advice if you are unsure about whether a financial product or strategy is suitable for you.

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